Friday, June 28, 2019

A Prayed-Up Day


     It’s been an emotional week. Thanks for riding and reading along with me. I am an overly emotional person by nature. I sympathize, yearn to fix the things of which I have no control, cry easily and laugh too much. I broke down in tears today, not in sadness, but in release. I held it together for our daughter’s wedding ceremony. It was my first wedding to officiate and my own daughter! Still boggles my mind that God brought me through.

     So many prayers covered us on Saturday. So many prayers covered the weather, which turned out to be ideal. Prayer is vital. I hope you have prayer warriors in your life. Mine are the best. When I ask for prayer, they are faithful. It is truly a gift that fills me with emotion. (well, no surprise there)

     I have felt the power of prayer so many times over the years. When dealing with heavy grief, prayer sustains us. When we are filled with joy, prayer doubles it. When we face chaos, prayer gives us peace. Prayers of gratitude bring us to praising our God.

     Our personal prayer-time with Jesus is essential, both in sharing and in listening. His voice is real and He will give us specifically what we need. Jesus gives us just what we need, not what we want. If He had granted all of my wishes throughout my life, my life would be a disaster.

     I have a coffee mug that reads, “A day hemmed in prayer will never unravel.” Hem your days in prayers. Begin each day and end each day with Jesus.

Proclaiming your love in the morning and your faithfulness at night. Psalm 92:2

     Pray throughout your days. Jesus will never leave your side.

Pray continually. 1 Thessalonians 5:17

     Take a minute right now to open your heart to Jesus. What are your needs today? Safe travel? Prayers for a loved one? Hope for an anxious friend? The right words to share? Gratitude for the blessings? Trust Him to answer. And to my prayer warriors? I pray a prayer of thanksgiving for all of you.

I thank my God every time I remember you. Philippians 1:3

Lord,

We need to be in prayer with You and we need others to pray for us. You intercede right along with us to answer our prayers. How grateful I am to have such faith-filled prayer warriors in my life. Give them and each person reading this blog a sense of Your loving presence right this minute.

In Jesus name,

Amen

Thursday, June 27, 2019

A Frustrating Day


     Our summer vacation is here. With our great day-job during the school year of watching our 1-year-old grandson and the wedding planning, it has been a whirlwind year, filled with unexpected joys and exhaustion! I give my husband credit. Believe me, it isn’t easy living with a legally blind wife on even an ordinary day.

     As my eyes continue to deteriorate, he steps in to, well…honestly…clean up behind me! I miss so much as I cook, as I clean, as I walk through my days hesitantly. The missteps and fear can take over. He wants me to trust his lead, but I tend to hold back when I sense a step or a problem ahead. It’s as if he is leading an obstinate puppy or a petulant five-year-old. You can feel his pain.

     He gets the medal of honor for being patient and kind and trying to navigate life with me and for me. We do appreciate each other for the differences in our personalities, in our decision-making, in our logic vs. creativity perspectives. But, now and again, we hit a wall of frustration. You, too?

     After the exhaustion of the wedding, my emotions got the better of me and I felt like I was letting him down. It happens every now and again, when my eyes take another drop or the bumps and bruises or hesitations take their toll. This devotion is for him. God gave him to me for a reason and he has faithfully walked alongside me for 34 years. He is honest, trustworthy and kind-hearted, a great husband and the best dad and grandpa I don’t tell him enough, even though our love for each other is forever and deep and real.

      So today, dear husband, take a bow. You deserve it. There are no words of appreciation strong enough, no special words of love meaningful enough, no message perfect enough, to thank you.

     My flaws are many, but love conquers all.

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

Lord,

We thank You for the gift of marriage, which You designed. Help us to see each other through Your eyes, through the irritations and annoyances. Thank You for my wonderful husband and for helping us cover a multitude of sins.

In Jesus name,

Amen


Wednesday, June 26, 2019

An Ordinary Day


     It’s tough getting back to reality after the planning and celebration of our daughter’s wedding. The bride is back at work and the piles I have placed away until “later,” now have to be taken out and sorted, the decorations divided and taken to consignment, and the ordinary events of each day will unfold again.

     Looking back over decades and decades and decades (yikes the years are piling up) brings fresh perspective on the passage of time. Weren’t we just eighteen with all of life ahead of us, or crazily coping with raising two young girls? The ordinary days, the struggles and sorrows, the joys upon joys add up in our earthly lives.

     Each day brings me gratitude. My 80-year-old friend, Connie, begins each day with this prayer, “Thank you, Jesus, for the breath of life today.” A good way to start the day. Each moment is a gift and when we know Jesus, we can trust He will use all of the moments, both ordinary and extraordinary, both mundane and miraculous, both grief-laden and joy-filled into bringing glory to His name.

     He turns it all to focus on Him. He is our eternal home and our steadfast companion. He will never let you down. He will never leave your side. Enjoy your moments today if you can. If it’s a tough time, trust Him with it to work it out for His good.

“So do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

Father,

Teach us to appreciate all of our days, no matter the circumstances. You will strengthen us and uphold us through it all. We savor the moments we can treasure and hold close to our hearts and they are many. Thank You for the breath of life today.

In Jesus name,

Amen


Tuesday, June 25, 2019

A Perfect Day


     Perfect moments, perfect hours, perfect days are rare. Do you remember a summer day in your youth spent outside all day with friends? Or a vacation day with gorgeous blue skies and endless water views stretching out before you. I used to love a rainy day spent with a pile of books. What is your idea of a perfect day? A day stretching into the wee hours of the morning laughing with good friends? A day alone?

     Saturday, June 22nd 2019 will go down in the life of our family as one of those rare, perfect days. The moments added up to a magical, unforgettable day filled with love, laughter and light. Our daughter married the love of her life. The day began for me reading a devotional with my husband that included a verse I would use in the ceremony.

     Getting ready at the hotel, seeing my daughter looking like a magazine-cover bride for the first time, seeing her groom’s children looking like a prince and princess, all dressed up, the yellow bridesmaids dresses flowing in the breeze of what would be a perfect weather day (one forecast to include rain)  Thank you Jesus!

     Yes, the “sun” was out and the “Son” was there in His full glory. The groom, so handsome, would shed tears through most of the ceremony and the words of Christ were shared. The vows were spoken, the kids added in with a sand ceremony, each one with a glass filled with a color to represent how special and unique they are, would be poured together, stirred and blended into one family.

     Now husband and wife. God is good and we praise Him for the perfect moments, etched in our minds and hearts forever. Love. The perfect moments always include love. They aren’t perfect if they are not shared and we are blessed to have wonderful family and friends who honored us with their presence. We love you Angela and De and we couldn’t be more proud of the love and commitment you two share.

“For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother, and be united to his wife, where the two will become one flesh, so they are no longer two, but one flesh. What God has joined together, let no man separate.” Matthew 19:6

     Here is the blessing and the verse I left with them.

Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, to Him be the glory forever and ever. Ephesians 3:20

Father,

We thank You for the perfect moments and the perfect days in our lives. We give You praise for the gift of love that fills our hearts. Bless Angela and De as they move into the future as husband ans wife.

In Jesus name,

Amen

Thursday, June 20, 2019

Peace


     Our daughter is getting married in two days! We have waited for, prayed for, and anticipated this day for so long. Today’s blog is for all of us as we ask for the peace of Christ to sustain us through these next joy-filled days, to savor the moments and to soak in the blessings.

     I don’t know about you, but I crave the peace of Jesus each and every day. My personality causes me to fret and worry, to be in my head too much, to question too much, to try too hard. Our beautiful daughter inherited the same worry gene. Are you hungry for the peace of God? He tells us it is available.  In fact, He tells us to be anxious for NOTHING! 

Be anxious for nothing, but by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your needs known to God. And the peace of God that transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7

     Ultimately, it comes down to trust. Do we have enough faith to trust God with everything? I say I do, but the worry and doubt creep in, especially during the night. But that sweet peace returns over and over again. Keep praying to Him. Keep believing Him. Keep thanking Him in advance for what He will do. Keep longing for His peace and thank Him for it. It is there for the asking.

     Paul’s letter to the city of Philippi tells us to learn from his example. The books of the Bible penned by Paul were written to guide us in the Christian life. Here are some of his words to follow.

Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me-put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:9

     Jesus offers us a unique type of peace. It is not of this world. It is beyond it. A forever kind of peace, rooted in faith. I leave you today with more words from Christ Himself.

“Peace I leave with you. My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27

Lord,

Keep us filled with Your peace. It is unlike anything else in this world. Keep our hearts focused on You. We praise you for the love between our daughter Angela and her fiancé, (soon to be husband, De) Keep them in your peace and joy throughout the days, and bless them as they take these sacred vows.

Amen

Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Practice


     God has planned a life of adventure made just for you. Faith is not a classroom, (or a church pew) where we take in knowledge, comfort and love for ourselves. God wants us to study His Word, to be familiar with His character, with His love, with His expectations, with His views on everything so we can make a difference in the world around us.

     After all, He created everything. He has the right to be in charge! The world has gone off the deep end in finding ways to make Jesus insignificant or just one of many. For example, He was a good man and we can learn from His example. As C.S. Lewis reminded us. (my paraphrase) If we read the words of Jesus, He was either a lunatic, a liar or He is Lord.

     Jesus is Savior, the way, the truth and the life. He explained everything and the Bible, from the very first bite of the apple, points to redemption through Him and to the hope of a Messiah.

     When we put into practice all He says and when we walk in step with the Spirit, He will open doors of opportunity we could never imagine. The greatest gift for any of us is to share the Gospel.

     Do you know the Gospel? Have you shared it with others? It is simple and profound. The need for a Savior ultimately brings us to our knees, as we long for forgiveness, as we recognize our need to be loved, to belong. And there it is! The truth of His sinless life, the agonizing death as He shed His holy blood and suffered all of our sins, the beauty of the resurrection and the offer of freedom from death.

     Believe it! Share it! Watch for the next adventure. It is right around the corner. Adventure with a purpose just the way God planned it. So often it is easier to sit in our comfortable pews with people that look like us, act like us and speak like us, isn’t it?

     Jesus and His disciples and those in the early church took risks. They went into places others avoided. Jesus spoke with prostitutes and tax collectors. And the religious leaders at the time? Here is what they thought.

But the Pharisees and teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.” Luke 15:7

    They were appalled when Jesus healed on the Sabbath. They didn’t like that He ate and drank and enjoyed time with His friends.

The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, “Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.” But wisdom proved right by her deeds. Matthew 11:19

     We can practice the presence of Christ and His ways wherever we go, with an expectation of new opportunities ahead. Where will He take us next? Who will we sit next to on the plane? Who will we meet at work? What opportunities will He place right in front of our noses? Don’t miss out. There is nothing like being a Christian in a world starved for Him.

Lord,

Open doors of adventure to us. Help us not to judge as the Pharisees did, but always, always speak Your truth in love. Your ways are always best even when we don’t agree with them.

In Jesus name,
Amen

Tuesday, June 18, 2019

Purpose


     What does God need from me? Am I doing enough? Where do I go next? Am I letting Him down? All good questions and questions I have asked over the years. How do we know the purposes God has planned for us?  First of all, it is HIS work in us.

Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6

     The book of Philippians is filled with good advice for us and filled with joy. God’s purposes always involve love, encouragement and comfort. These next verses remind us that we are children of the light. They also remind us of how difficult it is to maintain our lives as Christians! I fall short every single day.

Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation. Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky. Philippians 2:14-15

     Without grumbling or arguing? Impossible most days. Don’t worry. Remember it is God’s work in us. The Holy Spirit within us will set us on a new path, prompt us in our hearts, discipline us when needed and continue to love us.

     What a relief. His purposes and His guidance will bring deep blessings as we continue to serve Him in a dark world. He is way beyond our earthly grumblings and He will use us despite ourselves until we shine like stars. And His purposes will fit you like a glove, using your very own personality, and your own unique talents and gifts. there is no one like you!

Jesus,

Thank You for never giving up on us. I can’t imagine how You put up with us day after day, but You love us so much that You died for us and we praise You for continuing to work on us.

Amen